Williamson Wellness

about

Kim Williamson

Mental Health Therapist/Counselor


 

How I started Practicing:

I actually got my Masters Degree in Counseling Psychology right after college, which was a bit of a long time ago. After spending time as an intern in a battered women's shelter in downtown Chicago, and then in community mental health for my practicum, I decided at the young age of 21 that I was not ready to commit to being a therapist just yet. From there I went into outside sales for fifteen plus years, which I enjoyed quite a bit and loved forming relationships with customers. Within that time period I met my now husband, got married and we raised two daughters, whom I homeschooled for the full 12 years. As they both went off to college, I was ready to get back into the workforce outside the home. It was then that I felt the draw to return to my passion of walking alongside people through their trauma, life, disruption, pain, loss, confusion, spiritual deconstruction, and abuse. More specifically, I felt a call to breath life and healing into those who have been unjustly harmed and violated through sexual abuse, both covert and actual physical sexual trauma.

Why I am passionate about healing:

My passion for providing a space for healing ignited upon finding out the truth about the sexual trauma of a young woman very dear to my heart. It was then that I intentionally pursued the truth about what is actually happening in our world to women, and men, in the area of sexual abuse.  The statistics of 1 in 3 women and 1 in 6 men experiencing some form of sexual trauma in their lifetime astounded me and my passion for justice escalated.  

Around this same time I started my own therapy, and discovered that I had my own story of sexual violation.  The healing from that continues; however, I am grateful for an abundance of breakthrough and freedom in the areas of my identity, sexuality, body image, role as a woman, and spiritual reformation. 

Years of Practice:

I began building my private practice in May of 2015. 

Primary Type of Therapeutic Work:

I primarily get the privilege of sitting with single, 15-40 year old women who, whether they know it or not when booking with me, come to find out that they have their own story of trauma, I like to say small ‘t’ trauma or capital ‘T’ trauma, we all have some. Oftentimes the trauma is in the area of sexual harm, which can happen not only through physical contact in the form of rape, but also inappropriate touching by others, early exposure to pornography or sexuality.  Covert sexual abuse, also named as emotional incest,  shows up in triangulation when one of the parents looks to their child for the emotional connection that would and should normally be provided by their spouse. 

In addition, I enjoy unraveling the mess of spiritual abuse in which the dogma or doctrine of a church or denomination has harmed an individual through control, shame, condemnation, judgement, coercion, or manipulation, to mention a few.  I consider myself sensitive to the complexity of stepping into these areas.  I too have walked through my own “deconstruction”. 

“The privilege of a lifetime is being who you are.”

-Joseph Campbell

 

Kim’s Credentials


Masters of Psychology

Kim holds both her BS and MS:

  • B.S. - Undergrad completed at Northwestern University - Bachelor of Science is in Human Development and Social Policy.

  • M.A. - Masters completed at Northwestern University - Master of Arts is in Counseling Psychology.


Licensed Mental Health Counselor (LMHC)

Kim is a Licensed Mental Health Counselor in the state of Florida.

  • Florida Registered LMHC: License #IMH 13513


Allender Advanced Counseling Certificate

Level 1

Kim completed the Allender Advanced Counseling Certificate Level 1 in March 2017. Participants receive a certificate of completion verifying 100 seat hours (60 hours of teaching, 40 hours of group work).

“This program is uniquely designed to develop the capacity to offer deep listening and healing care for lay and professional counselors… We have the courage to believe that redemption is possible—even in the face of betrayal, pain, abuse, and trauma…”

-The Allender Center


Allender Advanced Counseling Certificate

Level 2

Allender Advanced Counseling Certificate Level 2 was completed in May 2018. Participants receive a certificate of completion verifying 50 seats hours.

Central to this next level of training is a deepened capacity to recognize core issues of shame, contempt, and ambivalence as they are revealed through story, and identify inroads to name and engage these themes more effectively with those in your care.

-The Allender Center


Treating Affairs & Trauma

within marriage

Certification

‘Treating Affairs and Trauma’ Certification was awarded by The Gottman Institute to Kim in 2022.

Treating Trauma

This certification helped Kim to understand the impact of PTSD on committed relationships by using real examples of trauma caused by early abandonment, childhood abuse, and military combat. The Gottmans model a therapeutic approach that interweaves individual PTSD treatment with Gottman Method Couples Therapy. 

Treating Affairs

Kim gained insight into the science behind trust and betrayal and the tools needed to create trust & commitment in ‘love’ relationships. The Gottmans describe their impactful “Atone, Attune, and Attach” model for treating affairs. Kim has since incorporated this methodology into her work with couples and found it very impactful in the healing process. This model provides Kim with an unbiased approach that compassionately serves both partners as they struggle to rebuild a collapsed relationship. Kim has applied important variations in assessment and intervention techniques that empower couples to not only rebuild their relationship, but also create immunity from future betrayals


Bridging the Couples Chasm Certification

Level 1

Kim completed her ‘Bridging the Couples Chasm’ certification in 2019. Kim leverages the Gottman Method Couples Therapy in her work with couples and in premarital counseling. This includes assessment sessions that overview the 480-question online assessment questionnaires completed by each individual partner. Kim incorporates the Sound Relationship House Theory which emphasizes the paramount importance of a sound friendship as a foundation for a good marriage. In addition, it is critical for the couple to learn and practice in session a wide variety of healthy conflict resolution skills.


“Creatures are not born with desires unless satisfaction for those desires exists. A baby feels hunger: well, there is such a thing as food. A duckling wants to swim: well, there is such a thing as water… If I find in myself a desire which no experience in this world can satisfy, the most probable explanation is that I was made for another world. If none of my earthly pleasures satisfy it, that does not prove that the universe is a fraud. Probably earthly pleasures were never meant to satisfy it, but only to arouse it, to suggest the real thing. If that is so, I must take care, on the one hand, never to despise, or be unthankful for, these earthly blessings, and on the other, never to mistake them for the something else of which they are only a kind of copy, or echo, or mirage. I must keep alive in myself the desire for my true country… I must never let it get snowed under or turned aside; I must make it the main object of life to press on to that other country and to help others do the same.”

― C.S. Lewis, Mere Christianity